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Managing Stress 101
Stress is defined as your physiological response
to an event, memory or internal or external stimulus that triggers your
flight-or-flight response. Managing stress is all about using specific
techniques to cope with or alter your response to stressful situations.
If your response to a stress event is inadequate
or inappropriate you will experience certain physiological responses: sweating,
rapid heart rate, slowing of your digestive system, and a shot of adrenaline.
Over time, your continued inadequate or
inappropriate responses to stress will cause the triad of stress affects:
swelling of the adrenal glands, atrophy or shrinking lymphatic system, and
irritation of the digestive system.
Your job if you choose to accept it is to cope
with stress and even reduce stress by finding the correct stress management
technique and using them over a long period of time.
Just like anything, there
are rules and procedures to follow. To stop your stress freight train you need
resistance. You
stop fueling it. You
apply the breaks. You use
gravity or another
natural force to
assist you.
Look at your task of controlling stress. Does anything
about stopping a freight train apply to you?
Can you find some form of
resistance -- something to keep yourself from
collapsing in the face of stress? Your body needs energy from real foods,
adrenal gland support, rest, exercise, and relaxation.
Stop fueling your stress.
Stop giving it energy. It will continue to grow unless you stop fueling it. Stop
giving your stress what it needs to multiply. If you can avoid stressful
situations in the first place you will be far ahead of the game. What are some
areas, places, or people that you can avoid that by doing so will reduce your
stress?
Apply the breaks to your
stress. Where can you draw the line and make boundaries? Make your own rules
about this stress and stand firm on them. No more taking on extra work. No more
dating that certain person. No more eating that big glob of ice cream at night
and regretting it in the morning. Make new rules – stress-free rules you can use
to guide yourself before you put yourself into that stressful situation again.
Memories causing stress
need to be addressed. Not the memory but your response to it. There are ways to
neutralize your responses to negative or stress-causing memories. These require
some physical work on your part but are well worth doing. I have detailed
several techniques in my manual.
Use some natural force to assist you. Laughing is in. What can you do everyday to increase your laughter? Who
makes you laugh? What do you read that cracks a smile?
Exercise reduces your
stress. It is a fact that exercise improves your body’s muscle tone,
circulation, oxygenation, and other functions thereby improving your ability to
cope with stress.
Music sounds good. Music
can change a mood and stress levels in moments. What can you listen to that
takes your mind of the stress at hand? Turn it on and turn it up and take it
with you all day.
Relaxation is a pleasant
thought. Have you just sat for five minutes and not done anything? Sit for a
moment and take some deep breaths. Do nothing for a change on purpose.
Managing stress is two
points.
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Find out what it is that
causes you stress; avoid it and make new rules about it.
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Do something that
powerfully reduces stress and do it over a long time, daily.
This is a simple process
but it is not easy; it takes time and attention but what other choices you have?
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